I’m not a careerist by nature and I don’t agree with the fact that every woman should have a will of steel like Margaret Thatcher had. I think that there’s no place for emotionality, tenderness, sensitiveness, kindness and gentleness in the hearts of iron ladies. Feminine qualities are an essential part of women’s nature.
Femininity is both the key and the weapon that can help every lady enchant the man of her dream. Men enchanted by delicate and feminine women are often ready to move the mountains for the sake of their love and happiness.
Women who can create beauty and comfortable home atmosphere, will always be surrounded by highly successful and manly men. Although feminine traits should be instilled in girls from their earliest childhood, if you’re already a grown-up, you still have a chance to reeducate yourself and develop these feminine characteristics in a quite short period of time.
1. Give preference to women’s style
I’ve noticed that modern women love to wear men’s clothes. They usually do it for various purposes. Someone find a masculine fashion comfortable, while others feel 100 times more confident when wearing men’s clothes or have to stick to certain dress codes. Women who prefer to wear jeans, shirts, T-shirts, and sneakers look fashionable, beautiful and stylish, but not feminine.
Over the years these women have got used to men’s style and gradually lose the sense of femininity. They start wearing their hair short and forget about jewelry or other things that make them feminine and help them look bright against the cold surroundings. It’s okay to try something new and experiment with fashion, but it’s crucially important not to cross the line, because unusual styles can have a big influence on both men’s and women’s minds.
2. Develop a feminine voice
No matter how you slice it, the voice of a woman is an incredibly important thing that can either enhance her feminine allure or alienate people. Modern men set high standards of excellence for themselves and others, especially when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex. They find women with high-pitched female voices more attractive.
If for one or other reason you don’t have the voice of an angel, you shouldn’t fall into despondency about it. First of all, record your voice for you to hear it as other people hear and analyze what kind of voice you have. If you have a lower-pitched, creaky and rude voice, consider using different feminine voice techniques to develop a female voice.
But the pitch of the voice isn’t the only thing you should focus on. Develop a feminine enunciation, expand your vocabulary and improve your grammar. As soon as you reach all these goals, you’ll be able to win the hearts of men with the help of one or two phrases.